The Core Beliefs of Confidence自信的核心信念

Why do people universally crave confidence， arguably even more than they desire money， mates， and material success？ Because， confidence is one of perhaps just two experiences in life （love being the second） that change all the other things in life for the better. People with greater confidence are rated as more attractive， adventurous and outgoing， and physically and emotionally healthier. They enjoy more and higher-quality relationships. Confidence even makes people more resilient to stress. The more intriguing question is why everyone doesn’t already have more confidence. You’re probably underachieving your confidence potential not because of a lack of support or external success but because of accidental ways you’ve learned and been taught to think. If that explanation strikes you as too simple to be true， consider the following：

为什么人们普遍渴望自信，甚至超过了对金钱、伴侣和物质成功的渴求？这是因为，自信或许是人生中仅有的两种（另一种是爱）会令生活处处向好的体验之一。（剩余6154字）