When Someone Asks Your Opinion, Give It说出你的想法

When someone asks for your opinion， are you quick to offer it？ Or do you opt instead for a laid-back “it’s your call，” a noncommittal “anything’s fine，” or an eager-to-please “whatever works best for you”？

当有人征求你的意见时，你会立即给出自己的意见吗？还是会转而选择不在乎地说一句“听你的”，或者不置可否地说“都可以”，抑或是急于讨好地说“对你有用就行”呢？

Many of us intentionally withhold our preferences in an attempt to appear easygoing and amiable. Especially in a workplace context， we may assume that being less opinionated can help us make a good impression on our peers， employees， or managers. But through three large-scale research projects that explored a wide range of interpersonal situations with a total of more than 7，000 participants， we found that failing to weigh in can actually make you seem less likable and harm your relationships.

有很多人会故意隐瞒自己的真实喜好，来试图显得随和可亲。（剩余7037字）